Thoughts and stories, by Pal

This is an excellent article that first was published in LDS Living in 2011.  It gives sound counsel about when a missionary comes home early, and how to be a help and support to them. When a Missionary Returns Early AARON OLSEN - 7 HOURS AGO A missionary’s return is meant to be a joyous occasion. But it doesn't always happen that way. It is the mark of a job well done, of two years of sacrifice devoted to God and others. Homecoming for a returned missionary should be a time for family gathering, congratulations, and reflection. For me, it was quite different—depression and bipolar disorder sent me home before my 10th month was up.  That doesn’t stop others from treating me like I am somehow less than I should be. For thousands of missionaries who come home early—whether due to rule infractions, health issues, or emotional struggles—much of the trauma lies in the treatment given by well-intentioned friends and neighbors. Conclusion and Consequence After return