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This is a good article about forgiving and forgetting.  Don't hold grudges, and try and make peace with everyone. To my readers -- My husband Wayne is on kidney dialysis 3 times a week, Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, from 7 a.m. to 11:30 a.m.   I take him, and try to keep up on which foods he can or can't eat -- it's very complicated!  He has 3 or 4 doctor appointments each week, usually, in addition to dialysis, so I may not be writing my blog as often.  I do enjoy it, but I'm tired also!  I think I will repost some of our pioneer stories, and past blogs that people have read.  I would welcome any comments, and you can write to my e mail if you'd like;    paralee.eckman@gmail.com Release Someone from Emotional Prison By JeaNette Goates Smith  · April 27, 2015 Share on email Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on google_plusone_share Share on pinterest_share More Sharing Service Once, in an attempt to re-activate a sister on my

This is a great article.  I wish I'd know it nine kids ago --(and almost 60 years ago.  We raised our children on Dr. Spock -- not totally, but child raising books were rampant.  And I was the oldest of 3 girls, and hadn't grown up around children and babies.)  Come to think of it, we must have done some things right, because our children are great people, who are contributing a lot to the good in this world! What I Wish I'd Known Three Kids Ago LISA VALENTINE CLARK - on LDS Living We all want to be the best parent in the world. But as it turns out, sometimes we spend a little too much time reading advice and not enough time just enjoying raising our kids. In my book,  Real Moms: Making It Up As We Go,  I’m really insistent about NOT giving advice. I think social media has overcorrected modern mothering in this area. The last thing we, as an American parenting society, need is one more article telling us what to do or not do. But I do believe in being reflec

We are all concerned and praying for the good people of Nepal.  This article in Meridian is very interesting! MERIDIAN CARES Share on email Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on google_plusone_share Share on pinterest_share More Sharing Service Meridian has received word that Bishnu Adhikari, known among Latter-day Saints for his profile in   Meet the Mormons   is accounted for and safe in Kathmandu, Nepal, along with his family and all the LDS branch members. When the devastating 7.8 earthquake shook Saturday, he was at the church, watching LDS General Conference. Luckily, the structure they were in withstood the impact of initial and subsequent after shocks . Report from Bishnu Adhikari on Nepal Earthquake By Meridian Magazine  · April 26, 2015 Meridian has received word that Bishnu Adhikari, known among Latter-day Saints for his profile in  Meet the Mormons  is accounted for and safe in Kathmandu, Nepal, along with his family and all the LDS branch memb

These are great tips for missionaries to tell their investigators! How to Tell Your Parents You're Joining the LDS Church GREG TRIMBLE -  Those who want to become members of the LDS Church are often fearful of how their families might respond. Here is some great advice for those who want to join the Church but don't know how to break the news to their parents. Over the years, I've noticed that a common reason for not being baptized into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is "my parents would freak out," or "my parents would disown me." There are hundreds of variations on those sentiments, but I think it's safe to say that many people don't officially join the Church because deep down they don't want to disappoint their parents. Those who face that decision don't just read Matthew 10:34-37 . . . they are living it: Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword. F

Topics:   Mormon Report / Official Church Info Elder L. Tom Perry to Receive Treatment for Cancer, Elder Richard G. Scott Hospitalized SOURCE: LDS LIVING This morning, the Church released a statement about the health of Elders L. Tom Perry and Richard G. Scott. Photo from the  Salt Lake Tribune . Earlier this week, Elder L. Tom Perry was  hospitalized for breathing troubles . Though the Church announced that Elder Perry was released from the hospital and was resting at home Wednesday night, today, the Church gave an important update on Elder Perry's health: “Elder L. Tom Perry will begin radiation treatment this morning after being diagnosed with cancer in the thyroid gland." They noted that, "Elder Perry is the second most senior apostle in terms of length of service in the Quorum of the Twelve, and the oldest living apostle." In addition to Elder Perry's health concerns, the Church statement today also noted that Elder Richard G. Scott w

               The Biggest Wait of all!           by Joni Hilton, for Meridian Magazine, April 22, 2015. For a guy who’s known more for math skill than verbal prowess, Albert Einstein has nevertheless given us some great quotes. One of my favorites is “Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. That’s relativity.” Indeed, our perception of time varies tremendously. A pregnant woman can feel as if it takes an eternity for those nine months to conclude, yet her child grows up in the blink of an eye. Waiting five minutes on hold during a phone call seems unconscionable. But a five minute wait to see our doctor could find us smiling, “Oh, wow—already?” I think we can all agree that life is filled with waiting. We wait for our children to learn good behavior. We wait for crops to grow, cakes to bake, trains to arrive and rain to come (or stop). We wait for someone to text us

I love to read anything by Truman G. Madsen.  These are amazing ideas from his writings. 5 Tips to Make the Sacrament More Meaningful TRUMAN G. MADSEN -  Having a hard time staying focused on the Savior during the sacrament? Try using these amazing ideas from the writings of beloved religious scholar Truman G. Madsen. 1. Get Inspired Introspection In His sacrament—and in all the other ordinances—the Lord gives us glimpses of ourselves. In self-examination we are most blessed when we begin to see ourselves as we are seen by Him and know ourselves as we are known by Him (see D&C 76:94). Knowledge of the Savior and self-knowledge flow together. “Let a man examine himself,” Paul counseled (1 Corinthians 11:28). . . . Whatever our present soul-sicknesses, the Savior sees beyond them. He knows our glorious past—who we were in the premortal spheres. And He can and does envision our destiny and what we are to become. In contrast, we live under the blur of amnesia of

This was in LDS Living, and from experience, I know it has a lot of wisdom. How to Ruin Your Relationship With Your Teenager by Michelle Lehnardt Photo from ThinkStock MR says: Parents always mean well--and your kids can tell! So apologize sometimes, take time to listen, and  avoid behaviors  that can accidentally push  your teen  away. One evening my sons came home with the same exclamation, "It's amazing how many kids hate their parents!" We talked for an hour or so about why, and I've interviewed several teenagers over the last few months for further clarity. The good news: most teenagers are very forgiving of parental missteps; they recognize their own faults and readily forgive others'. Even better, in a healthy relationship, teenagers love you for who you are. Yes, they might act embarrassed when you hug them in front of their friends or even drop them off in front of the high school. But they really don't care if you're overweight,

This is a very interesting article, for those who may feel "burned out" trying to become perfect.  Yes, it is important to try to improve ourselves, but the author, a clinical therapist, helps us learn to use wisdom.  LINE UPON LINE 3 Common Cultural Myths that Make  Mormons Miserable By Julie de Azevedo Hanks  · April 16, 2015 It’s no secret that there are some very specific myths in Mormon culture. These can range from our family size (15 kids and counting!) to our vocabulary (“oh, my heck!”), and even to our food (green jello, anyone?). While certainly not all (or even most) Mormons embody these stereotypes, most of us can have a good laugh at them from time to time. Other myths concerning our faith, however, are not as funny or lighthearted, During my years as a clinical therapist, I’ve witnessed how faulty spiritual equations can cause some Latter-day Saints great emotional pain and rob them of happiness and peace. These ideas are

Dear friends, all over the world!  I have put a note now and then about the health problems my dear husband Wayne has had.  Tonight I'm putting on an e mail I sent to our family and friends, many of whom haven't been aware of some of our recent challenges.  He was 84 last September, and actually his health problems mostly started with his having pneumonia in September, and coming out of the hospital a day after he turned 84, on September 18, 2014.  This is the Wayne we have all known and loved.  This picture was taken in Menan, Idaho 3 or 4 years back on July 4th!  He has been the life of the party! This was taken last Sept. 20th, at my 80th birthday celebration, just after he came out of the hospital after having pneumonia, us with our daughter Tacy. This was taken the same day with our daughter Angela.  Wayne was quite well until Christmas week, when he spent 2 days before Christmas in the hospital, was home over Christmas, and then in the hospital 2 mor