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277. Great article on the value of getting married and starting a family -- not just wasting our time and money on frivolous things!

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We were married 2 weeks before I turned 21, (Pal) and Wayne had just turned 25 years old.  But he had a 2 1/2 year mission, and 2 years in the Army before we were married.  He began college just 12 days before we got married, and our first four years of marriage were busy with Wayne getting his education, and starting our family -- almost in poverty!  Our furniture was "early married", used, almost broken, etc. But it was fun fixing things up, and making do.  Many other young couples were doing the same, and we weren't that unusual.   We did have the GI Bill, but he still had to work a part time job continually.  I did odd jobs, tended children, helped serve at dinners at the college, etc., and taught a few piano lessons.  We had our first child, a son, within a year, and our second, a daughter, during college, and the fall after Wayne graduated our 3rd child was born.  What a blessing they have been to us, as well as the rest who came la...

276. 6 Things you need to do before you leave on an LDS mission! (from KSL)

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This was mentioned on KSL, and sounded interesting!  Preparing for a mission actually begins at an early age, and includes many things which will help you be a successful missionary.   Of course, the first thing is a solid testimony of the Restored Gospel, and a desire to serve, having lived worthy for it.  The ideas below may give you insights on other things which could be helpful to you.  Knowing how to cook basic healthy food, and do your own laundry top the practical list! ---------------------------------------------------     (Ideas from Grandma Pal)  --- These ideas can help you spend the time from when you get your call to when you actually leave.   Sometimes you have 4 to 6 months, and those months can provide valuable time to get your basic habits and knowledge of what a mission will be .   Learning get up and go to bed early and to not be so tied to electronic devices, etc. will help you be able to adjust to mission lif...

275. Taking care of ourselves, while we are a "caregiver". Unstringing our bow.

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This article from Meridian Magazine reminds me of when my dear mother, Ruth Allen Miles, lived with us .   We did have home health which came and helped her have baths but the  he last 3 weeks she lived with us, we  were helping her constantly.  For those weeks, I had a baby monitor in her bedroom, as she wouldn't ask for help in the night time.  Often during the night when I heard little noises, we would go and find she had fallen, and couldn't get up, or needed help after the bathroom.  My husband Wayne and I couldn't lift her.  She just wouldn't call for help. This is my dear mother, age 88, while living with us.  Within 6 months, she was so incapacitated, we finally took her to a good, kind, care center.    I became so exhausted, my Relief Society President, and the home health people both told me she needed 24 hour care.  My sisters and I consulted, and we took her to a nursing home that was very attentive to her needs...

274. "So Swiftly Fly The Years" -- from when our children were young!

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HAPPY HALLOWEEN EVERYONE! I can relate to this article in Meridian Magazine on Oct. 30th, because it is what I have been through!  Only yesterday I was sort of complaining to my husband, about how busy our children are, doing exactly what we did years ago, and that our lives are not filled with tight schedules and places to go.  Have fun, all you families with children, especially on this HALLOWEEN NIGHT!  We have only 15 or 20 visit our home now, as we don't live on a busy street.  ENJOY THE MOMENTS! This was our family in 1975, just before our oldest, Wayne M., left for his mission to Ecuador.  On the back row was Wayne, (Dad) then Anita, 16, Allen, 15, McKay 13, and Pal, (me).  Bottom row was Wayne M., 19, holding Jeremy, almost 1, Pamela, 5, Delsy, 17, Angela 10,  and Tacy 8. BUSY YEARS! PARENTING Swiftly Fly the Years By Darla Isackson  · October 30, 2014 The “I’ve had it with these kids” tone in her voice was...

273. The sad story of the Hawn's Mill Massacre, 176 years ago today, from LDS Living.

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Today is the 176th anniversary of the Hawn's Mill Massacre.  This tells the sad story, from LDS Living. The Truth Behind the Hawn's Mill Massacre BRENT M. ROGERS - 6 HOURS AGO It was 176 years ago today that Missouri militiamen attacked Latter-day Saints living in the Hawn's Mill settlement. From Brent M. Rogers, Church History and Joseph Smith Papers coeditor, find out more about the events before, during, and after the massacre. George Edward Anderson 1907 photograph of original Haun's Mill millstone. Church Archives, via  Juvenile Instructor .  On October 30, 1838, more than 200 Missouri militiamen attacked the Hawn’s Mill settlement located on Shoal Creek in Caldwell County, Missouri, where dozens of Mormon families lived. On that day, the Missouri militia opened fire on the small community, shooting into the small crevices of the blacksmith’s shop where several Mormon men and boys had taken refuge. The organized Missouri militia then entered t...